Gevşek Tutum (Çocuk Merkezci Aile): 

Gevşek tutum, otoriter tutumun tersidir. Genellikle orta yaşın üzerinde çocuk sahibi olan ailelerde ya da çocuğun kalabalık yetişkinler grubu içinde yetişen tek çocuk olması halinde sıklıkla rastlanır. Böyle bir ortamda çocuk, ailede tek iniyasitif sahibi tek kişidir ve onun isteklerine diğer aile bireyleri kayıtsız şartsız uyarlar.
Anne baba, çocuğa aşırı hoş görü gösterir bir başka değişle hoş görüyle boş vermeyi birbirine karıştırır. Disiplin yok denecek kadar gevşektir. Çocuğun çoğu olumsuz davranışı “çocuktur yapar” denerek aşırı hoş görüyle karşılanır. Ona sayısız haklar tanınır ancak sınırlar belirlenmez. Neyin doğru neyin yanlış olduğu yeterince öğretilip denetlenmez. Uslu durursan sana … alırım gibi ödül verilir. Gerektiğinde verilen cezalar çok yetersiz kalır, çocuk, erteleneceğini, unutulacağını ya da geçiştirileceğini bildiğinden cezayı ciddiye almaz.

Sonuç olarak gevşek bir ortamda yetişen çocuk,

• Bencil, şımarık, doyumsuz ve sorumsuz olur, o anne babasından çekineceğine anne babası ondan çekinir hale gelir.
• Anne baba, ara sıra sertleşmek istediği zaman da etkili olamaz.
• Evde ne isterse yapar ve yaptırır, istekleri buyruk niteliği taşır.
• Annesi, babası kızsa veya vursa daha fazlasıyla karşılık verir.
• Neredeyse onun elinde oyuncak olan, çaresiz kalan anne baba, kendini savunmak ve istediklerini yaptırmak için ağlayarak kendini acındırmaya çalışır.
• Hatalarının farkına varmayan çocuk, okulda ve sonraki hayatında hatalar yapmaya, kendine ve başkalarına zarar vermeye devam eder.
• Devamlı birilerinden hizmet ve her isteklerinin yapılmasını bekler.

Kaynak:  Birgin, Mustafa. Çocuk Eğitiminde Ailenin Önemi. El yayınları, İstanbul, 2012.


  1. Does your blog have a contact page? I’m having trouble locating it
    but, I’d like to send you an email. I’ve got some creative ideas for your blog you might be interested in hearing.
    Either way, great blog and I look forward to seeing it grow over time.

  2. Pretty nice post. I just stumbled upon your blog and wanted
    to say that I have really enjoyed browsing your blog posts.
    In any case I’ll be subscribing to your rss feed and I hope you write again soon!

  3. Have you ever thought about adding a little bit more than just your articles?
    I mean, what you say is valuable and everything.

    But think about if you added some great photos or
    video clips to give your posts more, “pop”! Your
    content is excellent but with images and videos, this site could definitely be one of the greatest in its niche.
    Amazing blog!

  4. Having read this I thought it was extremely enlightening.

    I appreciate you finding the time and effort to put this article together.

    I once again find myself personally spending a significant amount of time
    both reading and commenting. But so what, it was
    still worthwhile!

  5. Wow that was odd. I just wrote an extremely long comment but after I clicked submit my comment didn’t
    appear. Grrrr… well I’m not writing all that over again.
    Anyhow, just wanted to say superb blog!

  6. I know this if off topic but I’m looking into starting my own weblog and was wondering what all is needed to get set up?
    I’m assuming having a blog like yours would cost a pretty penny?
    I’m not very web smart so I’m not 100% positive. Any recommendations or advice would be greatly appreciated.
    Appreciate it

  7. Attractive component of content. I just stumbled upon your weblog and
    in accession capital to claim that I get in fact loved account your blog posts.
    Anyway I will be subscribing to your augment or even I fulfillment you
    get admission to persistently fast.

  8. I must thank you for the efforts you’ve put in penning this website.
    I’m hoping to see the same high-grade blog posts by you in the
    future as well. In fact, your creative writing abilities has
    motivated me to get my very own website now 😉

  9. Undeniably imagine that which you stated. Your favourite justification seemed to
    be on the internet the easiest factor to take note of.
    I say to you, I definitely get annoyed while other folks think about worries that they
    plainly do not know about. You managed to hit the nail upon the highest and also defined
    out the entire thing with no need side effect , folks can take a signal.
    Will probably be back to get more. Thank you

  10. I absolutely love your site.. Excellent colors & theme.
    Did you build this website yourself? Please reply back as I’m attempting to create
    my own website and would love to learn where you got this from or
    just what the theme is called. Thank you!

  11. Howdy! Quick question that’s completely off topic. Do you know
    how to make your site mobile friendly? My web site looks
    weird when browsing from my apple iphone. I’m trying to find a template or plugin that
    might be able to resolve this issue. If you have
    any suggestions, please share. Appreciate it!

  12. With havin so much written content do you ever run into any issues of
    plagorism or copyright violation? My site has a lot
    of exclusive content I’ve either authored myself or
    outsourced but it appears a lot of it is popping it up all over the internet
    without my permission. Do you know any ways to help reduce content
    from being stolen? I’d really appreciate it.

  13. I’m truly enjoying the design and layout of your site.
    It’s a very easy on the eyes which makes it much more
    enjoyable for me to come here and visit more often. Did you hire
    out a designer to create your theme? Superb work!

  14. Heya i’m for the primary time here. I came across this board and I to find It truly useful & it helped me
    out a lot. I hope to offer something again and aid others such as you helped me.

  15. Hi would you mind letting me know which hosting company you’re utilizing?
    I’ve loaded your blog in 3 completely different browsers and I must say this blog loads a lot quicker then most.
    Can you recommend a good web hosting provider at
    a honest price? Thank you, I appreciate it!

  16. What i do not understood is in reality how you are not actually much more neatly-preferred than you might be right now.
    You’re so intelligent. You recognize thus significantly
    on the subject of this matter, made me in my view consider it from so many various angles.
    Its like men and women aren’t fascinated except it’s something
    to do with Woman gaga! Your personal stuffs great.
    All the time maintain it up! natalielise plenty of fish

  17. Hello just wanted to give you a quick heads up and let you know a few of the
    images aren’t loading correctly. I’m not sure why but I think its a linking issue.
    I’ve tried it in two different web browsers and both show the same outcome.

  18. It’s the best time to make some plans for the future and it is time to be happy.
    I have read this post and if I could I wish to suggest you few
    interesting things or tips. Perhaps you can write next articles referring
    to this article. I want to read even more things about it!

  19. It is perfect time to make some plans for the future and it is time to be happy.

    I’ve read this post and if I could I wish to suggest you few
    interesting things or tips. Perhaps you can write next articles referring to this
    article. I desire to read more things about it!

  20. Hello, There’s no doubt that your website could be having
    web browser compatibility issues. Whenever I look at your blog in Safari, it looks fine however, when opening in Internet
    Explorer, it has some overlapping issues. I merely wanted to provide you with
    a quick heads up! Aside from that, excellent website!

  21. Wonderful goods from you, man. I’ve understand your stuff previous to and you are just extremely great.
    I really like what you have acquired here,
    certainly like what you’re saying and the way in which you say it.
    You make it enjoyable and you still care for
    to keep it wise. I can’t wait to read far more from you.
    This is actually a wonderful site.

  22. Amazing! This blog looks exactly like my old one!

    It’s on a totally different topic but it has pretty much the same layout and design. Outstanding choice of colors!

  23. Have you ever thought about including a little bit more than just your articles?
    I mean, what you say is fundamental and all. Nevertheless imagine if you added some great photos or
    video clips to give your posts more, “pop”! Your content
    is excellent but with pics and videos, this website could definitely be one of the very
    best in its niche. Good blog!

  24. I blog frequently and I genuinely appreciate your content.
    Your article has truly peaked my interest. I am going to
    take a note of your site and keep checking for new information about
    once a week. I subscribed to your Feed as well.

  25. I will immediately grab your rss as I can not to find your
    e-mail subscription link or newsletter service.
    Do you’ve any? Please permit me recognise so that I
    may subscribe. Thanks.

  26. Hello there! I just wish to give you a huge thumbs up for
    the excellent information you have got here on this post.
    I am returning to your web site for more soon.

  27. I’m pretty pleased to uncover this website. I want to to
    thank you for ones time for this wonderful read!!
    I definitely appreciated every little bit of it and i also have you book-marked to see new stuff
    in your web site.

  28. you are in reality a just right webmaster.
    The web site loading pace is incredible. It sort of feels that you are
    doing any distinctive trick. Furthermore, The contents are masterpiece.

    you’ve performed a magnificent process in this topic!

  29. I like what you guys are up to. Such smart work and reporting! Carry on with the superb works guys. I have incorporated you guys to my blogroll. I think it’ll improve the value of my website. 🙂

  30. Hello fantastic blog! Does running a blog like this take
    a lot of work? I have virtually no expertise in coding but I was hoping
    to start my own blog in the near future. Anyway, should you have any recommendations or techniques for new blog owners please
    share. I understand this is off subject however
    I just had to ask. Cheers!

  31. Hello to every body, it’s my first pay a visit of this web
    site; this web site consists of amazing and actually excellent data in favor of readers.

  32. Oh my goodness! Impressive article dude! Thank you, However I am encountering difficulties
    with your RSS. I don’t understand the reason why I am unable to join it.
    Is there anyone else getting identical RSS problems?
    Anyone that knows the solution will you kindly respond? Thanx!!

Bir cevap yazın

E-posta hesabınız yayımlanmayacak.