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ANA-BABA TUTUMLARI VE ÇOCUKLAR ÜZERİNDEKİ ETKİLERİ 7

Demokratik Tutum (Güven verici, Destekleyici ve Hoşgörülü Tutum):

Demokratik tutumda, çocuk tüm yönleriyle kabul edilir. Çocuğa yol gösterilir ama alacağı kararlar konusunda serbest bırakılır. Aile içinde kurallar, sınırlar herkes için ve hep birlikte belirlenir ve bu sınırlar içinde çocuk özgürdür. Kuralların mantıklı açıklaması yapılır. Aileyi ilgilendiren kararlar beraber alınır. Her konuda çocuğun düşünce ve fikirleri dinlenir.
Anne baba çocuğunu olduğu gibi kabul edip destekler. Çocuklarına karşı sevgi doludurlar. Çocuğun ilgilerini, yeteneklerini göz önünde tutarak, yeteneklerini gerçekleştirebileceği ortamlar hazırlarlar.
Anne baba birbirlerine ve çocuğa olan duygularında açık davranır. Aile içinde güven ve şeffaflık vardır. Problemlerle nasıl baş edebileceğini birlikte araştıran, huzurlu bir aile ortamı vardır.
Anne babalar çocuklarına karşı hoşgörülüdürler, onları desteklerler, çocuklarıyla ilgili kararlar alırken seçenekler sunarlar, çocuğun seçtiği davranıştan ders almasına izin verirler. Aile ortamı çocuğa kendini anlatma özgürlüğü veriyorsa çocuk sağlıklı biçimde gelişir aileyi ilgilendiren kararlar alınırken çocuğun fikri sorulur. Çocuğun fikirleri ne kadar mantıksız ve basit olursa olsun mutlaka saygıyla dinlenir, çocuk susmaya değil konuşmaya teşvik edilir. Böyle bir ailede evde ve toplumdaki kuralların sınırları bellidir. Çocuk neyi nerede yapacağını veya yapmayacağını bilir. Evde uygulanacak kuralları çocuklarıyla birlikte belirlerler ve bu kurallara herkes uyar. Anne ve baba çocuğa davranışlarıyla iyi bir modeldir. Çocuklarından görmek istemedikleri davranışı kendileri de yapmak istemezler. Çocuk belirli sınırlar içinde özgürdür. Çocuğa şiddet ve duygusal yaptırım gücü yerine, anlatarak ikna etmeye çalışırlar.
Demokratik ailede yetişen birey, hem davranış seçiminde kendini özgür görebilir, hem de seçimleri hakkında kısıtlanacağından çekinmeden anne ve babasına danışabilecek onlarla fikir alış verişinde bulunabilecek durumdadır. Aile fertleri arasında açık ve net bir iletişim söz konusudur. Duygu ve düşünceler açık kalplilikle ifade edilmektedir. Problemlerde yine aynı şekilde konuşarak ve ikna edilerek çözüme ulaştırılmaya çalışılır. Çözüm ararken de demokratik yollara başvurulur.

Demokratik ve güven verici bir ortamda yetişen çocuk,

• Kendisine ve çevresine saygılı, sorumluluk sahibi, sınırlarını bilen, aktif, katılımcı, hoşgörülü ve mutludur.
• Ana-babanın tutarlı ve kararlı tutumu da çocuk da güven duygusunun gelişmesine yardımcı olur.
• Sosyalleşmiş, işbirliğine girendir.
• Arkadaş canlısı ve duygusaldır.
• Sosyal açıdan dengeli ve mutlu bireydir.
• Özgüvenleri yüksektir, sorumluluk sahibidir.
• Kendine ve başkalarına güvenir.
• Yaratıcı ve bağımsızdır.
• Kurallara ve otoriteye saygı duyar.

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